
Debi Gutierrez goes from Mommy to Comic in two seconds flat.
While the feisty West Coast comedian, actor and talk show host loads a rack of dishes, the devoted wife and mom is also summoning the mojo and spunk to talk kids, stress and sex in a cross-country interview. And it works.
“My comedy is based on what goes on in my life, (with) my family, my husband, my girlfriends and even the bedroom!” Debi says of her comedy set—one fans around the country declare is as unique and entertaining as it is undeniably truthful and funny.
“I am every mom!” Debi says. “I have kids, I have a job, I have to bake 38 cupcakes at the last minute, and I pray the soccer team never makes the playoffs! I love my husband but at the end of the day am too tired to show it!”
Better than therapy, Debi is a pro and laying out the non-mysteries of men (and women). Her material is yanked straight from her own life of “doing it all wrong,” she says. The comedian’s male/female-friendly act has drawn sold-out crowds around the U.S. and garnered Debi gigs on Comics Unleashed, The Rosie O’Donnell Show, Ghost Whisperer and Malcolm & Eddie.
She’s also performed on Univision’s Que Locos and at Showtime’s Latino Laugh Festival, Montreal Just for Laughs and HBO’s “U.S. Comedy Arts Festival. This week Wednesday through Saturday, Nov. 11 – 14, Debi brings everything to the stage at the Skyline Comedy Cafe.
Let’s get to know her better first, shall we?
A typical day in the life of Debi Gutierrez goes something like?
I wake up first thing in the morning, like most mommies out there, and get out of bed to get my kid moving! I make breakfast and pack lunch and then I am lucky enough to hand her over to my husband who takes her to school. Since my husband and I work together from our home office, we have coffee and discuss our game plan for the day. It’s hard for me to work from home because again, like most mommies, my home is my work as well! So I could be interviewing with someone across the country while I am loading the dishwasher.
The things that always come with you on the road are…?
My iPod! I have books on tape and podcasts I enjoy listening to. I always take a good book, because I rarely get time to read at home! I take hand sanitizer and Lysol because I am a germ-a-phobe!
What never fails to make YOU laugh is…?
I LOVE Craig Ferguson’s opening sketches! Those puppets are HILARIOUS! In fact, I have one on tape I watch when I need a laugh! Puppets on late night…LOVE IT!
Moments that you’ll never forget from hosting TV, doing stand-up and working on set?
The Rosie O’Donnell Show. The producers booked a last-minute guest–Jennifer Love Hewitt! It was a terrific surprise for me and the audience. She was a delight! You can see it on YouTube. Funny stuff!
When you get to the Skyline Comedy Cafe next week…
We are going to have a rocking good time! I am the female comic for men and the women they love! I speak the truth about how cool men are and how much fun we can have with them. I love bringing couples together and I am better than marriage counseling because you can have cocktails there! We talk kids, stress and sex.
It feels like you could be anyone’s mom, sister, friend…What makes your show so relatable to people?
Because it is real! My comedy is based on what goes on in my life … I am “mommied” all day and forget to take care of myself. I love my man and have studied men in general and know how they feel, talk, act and (what they) expect. Men really love my act because they are not put down, and I tell it like it is! I also let men in on women’s thoughts and feelings.
You jumped from teaching high-schoolers to, now, international comedian, actor, speaker…Why did you want out of the classroom and up on stage?
I never started out to be a teacher! I always wanted to be a comedian. But no parent would ever encourage their kid to be a stand-up comic! I would watch and study all the greats on Johnny Carson and dream about becoming a comic. And it was a big dream, because at the time I was watching there were very few women in the business and no Hispanics.
One thing we always hear is, you aren’t a “typical” female comic. Did you ever feel a sense of being stereotyped? What do you think does make your act so different?
Some female comics have reputations for being man haters and bitter about relationships. Some talk about their body, boyfriends and monthly cycle! Some talk about their mothers or being a mother to the point of boredom. I don’t do any of that. I love men! They are cool people! I don’t always understand them. I mean how do you explain someone who spits in a urinal….(I don’t even think he knows why, he just does it!). I talk about relationships, and the secret to a good one is “if he’s hungry you feed him, if he’s horny you *%$#^ him!” So easy!!!
I have been written up as being a sexist because of what I say on stage about men and relationships. The truth is, no man really wants to talk and share feelings….HE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND! He’s a man! I have been accused of claiming women are powerless in a relationship…Are you kidding me?! Your guy has a bad day at work and at the end of the day you are naked holding a cupcake?! That is power! Do your man on a regular basis and you have a man who will walk through hell to get you a glass of lemonade! That is power! I talk about how frustrating motherhood is and how to fix it! (Bring daddy on board!) I talk about how women compare themselves to other women and even do favors for women they don’t even like….Screw it, put yourself at the top of your To Do list. I love talking about these dynamics in such an honest and fun way! Trust me…women and men love this act and that is what separated me from the female comic who bashes a man and thinks PMS and bikini waxes are funny!
What does your family think of you being a comedian? Do your kids think Mom is funny?
Nope! Not at all. In fact the baby asked us not to tell anyone what I do for a living or that Daddy is Mommy’s booking agent because they will think we are “circus folk.”
Your latest album “He’s Not Your Girlfriend” covers material from your own life. What were YOU “doing all wrong” that lent to this hilarious CD?
Come see the show! I will explain it all! Treat your man like a man, quit expecting him to be like a woman. He isn’t wired that way! He loves you and shows you in other ways; we as women just don’t notice! (Like…) C’mon. What man likes his home decorated for Christmas? None of them! But they still spend a whole weekend getting everything out of a basement and putting it all up and then taking it down another weekend to put it all back…and why? He does it for his girl because he loves her. That is so wonderfully cool.
You appeal to people across the board. What makes you funny to men and women?
I am honest ABOUT the sexes, TO the sexes! I don’t bash anyone. I am a little naughty and raw! I know when couples leave the show, they appreciate each other in ways they couldn’t achieve in marriage counseling or church!
So you’ve done acting, hosting TV shows and live stand-up. What’s most fun, and what’s most challenging?
I love the stand-up! It is my show, my research, my observation, my take. It is challenging because there is no net! The challenging part of stand-up is that audiences don’t always get revved up to see a female comic. I have a stereotype to shatter before I even get on stage. I hope this blog helps!
What else should fans know about you before seeing you in Appleton next week?
Check out my web site: www.debiontheweb.com! You can see me in action! Have fun sharing the clips with each other and then plan on getting a sitter and come on out!
Come back next week for another exclusive Sneak Peek behind Skyline Comedy Cafe’s unmatched comedy talents! You can catch DEBI GUTIERREZ live this week in Appleton Nov. 11 – 14. Get those seats before they’re gone; Debi always sells out!























